It's not fair!

The picture is of my little sisters baby boy Cayden. He is a year now. Ali got pregnant at 20 and had him 3 days before her 21st birthday. I feel like everyone around me is getting married and having baby's. I would not feel the worry I feel if I did not have that stupid clock ticking. It is so not fair that men can have baby's up until 70 and we have until we are 35 to have a safer pregnancy and until about 42 give or take to have children all together. I am sure I will have all I want out of life (marriage and children) but I am tryign to do that when it is the right time. But like many women I fear I will wait to long and than no be able to have a child. No woman would feel this if we did not have that damn clock! It is so stupid we have the clock tick tick and we are mostly in charge of the birth contol when they can have babys for so much longer than we can. How many male bith contol ooptions that are there? We have a billion! Granted I do not know if I would trust any man to be in charge of the birth contorl when they often can not even remember to take out the trash but It would be nice if we as womend did not have so much presure!